In Loving Memory
Mary Ellan Bishop Decoux

Mary Ellan Bishop Decoux

5/19/1923  —  2/6/2022


Clayton-Thompson

A Life Remembered

Obituary

Mary Ellan Miller Bishop DeCoux, 98 of Groves passed away on Monday, February 7, 2022 at her home.

She was born on May 19, 1923 in Port Acres, Texas to Joseph Miller and Emma Marie Boudreaux Miller as the eleventh of thirteen children. Mary was a lifelong resident of this area. She graduated from Nederland High School in 1942. Mary began her career in the grocery business with De Spain Grocery in Port Neches followed by Lone Star Grocery on Gulfway and later at Henke and Pellot, which was bought by Kroger. She retired in 1984. During the war, she worked in the lab at Texaco from 1942-1946.

She was a longtime member of St. James Catholic Church where she was a very active member of the Ladies’ Altar Society and the Bereavement Committee.  She was also a Eucharistic Minister serving at Mass as well as bringing the Eucharist to the sick and homebound. For many years Mary volunteered at the International Seafarer’s Center and the Hospitality Center. She was also a member of DAWN ( Diocesan Association of Widowed Neighbors) as well as serving as the President.  She and her husband, Leo, prepared and cleaned the Chapel at St. Mary Hospital each week, Monday thru Friday, for the daily mass.

Mary received several awards during her lifetime.  Among them were The Golden Rule Award given by JC Penney, a cooking award in 2002 given by the Hospitality Center, the Volunteer Service Award for 2001-2002 given by the Sister Thea Bowman Academy at St. James, the Volunteer of the Year Award for 2001-2002 given by the Diocese of Beaumont Catholic Schools and the Citizen of the Year Award in 2004 given by the Port Arthur News.

She was preceded in death by her parents and her twelve siblings as well as her first husband, William Bishop, who died in 1979 and her second husband, Leo Clarence DeCoux, who died in January of 2022.

She is survived by her son, Glenn Thomas Bishop and wife Ann of Houston; two grandchildren, Stephanie Russell and husband Mark of Houston and William Bishop of Houston; two great granddaughters, Sarah Mae and Emma Russell;  her brother-in-law, Gus Toloudis of Fannett and numerous nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews.

Visitation will be on Saturday, February 12, 2022, from 9:00am till 10:00am at St. James Catholic Church in Port Arthur with a Rosary to be prayed at 9:30am. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00am Saturday following the rosary. Burial will follow in Oak Bluff Memorial Park under the direction of Clayton Thompson Funeral Home in Groves.  A reception following burial will be held at Kirwin Hall.  In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. James Catholic Church or the Hospitality Center.

Service Details

Gatherings in remembrance

Visitation

Saturday, February 12, 2022 · 9:00 AM – 10:00 AM

St. James Catholic Church, 3517 Gulfway Drive, Port Arthur, 77642

Prayer Service

Saturday, February 12, 2022 · 9:30 AM

St. James Catholic Church, 3517 Gulfway Drive, Port Arthur, 77642

Mass

Saturday, February 12, 2022 · 10:00 AM

St. James Catholic Church, 3617 Gulfway Drive, Port Arthur, 77642

Burial

Saturday, February 12, 2022 · 11:30 AM

Oak Bluff Memorial Park, 100 Block Street, Port Neches, 77651

Messages of Love

From family and friends

Raina Brouillet February 15, 2022
What a blessing to have met Mary in December. She was a remarkable woman whose kind, generous loving spirt will live on in the hearts of many.  Sending much love to her family and all those who she has touched.
Kathy Batten February 14, 2022
My thoughts and love to Glenn, Ann, William, Stephanie. Mark, Sarah Mae, and Emma.  Mary was an amazing mother, mother in law, grandmother, and great grandmother.  I have fond memories of her and her interactions with the babies.  God bless and good rest🙏❤️
Dian Dunnam Maxwell February 11, 2022
Glenn you probably don’t remember me but my parents and I were your neighbor on 1st Ave. I have such sweet memories of your mother. We have lost contact through the years but I’ve thought of her often. My prayers are with you and your family.
Nelda & Alvaro De Hoyos February 11, 2022
In Loving Memory of Mary Ellan Bishop DeCoux, Hearts and prayers go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.A Sympathy Gift of Group of 10 Trees has been Planted In Loving Memory of Mary Ellan Bishop DeCoux courtesy of Nelda & Alvaro de Hoyos.
Catherine Ferentini Od February 10, 2022
Much love sent to Mary’s family.   She was a beautiful, kind and lovely woman.  I am grateful that I got to know and love her.  I loved her jokes!  Some great memories!  Rest In Peace sweet Mary!
Royce And Nancy Abshire February 9, 2022
Our deepest sympathy to Mary’s family on their loss of such a dear, sweet lady.  Royce worked for many years at Henke and Pilot with Mary and she became a special, loving and dear friend to both of us.  She was always so cheerful and kind at all times.  We saw her throughout many years at St.James Church and each time was always a special memory for us.  She will always hold a cherished and special place in our hearts.  May God Bless each of you and give you comfort in knowing she was beloved by everyone who had the privilege of her friendship and love. Love, Royce and Nancy Abshire
Laura Russell Hill February 8, 2022
We are so sorry for the loss felt by everyone.  My family and I will cherish our memories of this wonderful lady.
Deborah Chauvin Robison February 8, 2022
Sympathy and prayers for the family of Mrs.Mary. Rest in peace dear lady and family friend. Mrs. Beatrice Chauvin, Deborah and John Robison
Deborah Chauvin Robison February 8, 2022
Sympathy and prayers for the family of Mrs.Mary. Rest in peace dear lady and family friend. Mrs. Beatrice Chauvin, Deborah and John Robison

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